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Speaking Only English in the Netherlands is Like Attending a Party Where You Don't Get the Jokes

2025-07-19

Speaking Only English in the Netherlands is Like Attending a Party Where You Don't Get the Jokes

Many people say: "Going to the Netherlands? No need to learn Dutch, their English is absolutely brilliant!" And they're right. Dutch people's English proficiency consistently ranks among the best globally. Pick any youngster on the street, and they might speak English more fluently than you. So, relying solely on English to 'get by' in the Netherlands is perfectly fine.

But have you ever considered that 'getting by' and 'truly living' are two entirely different things?

The Ease You Imagine Is Actually Missing Out on the World

Imagine, you've just arrived in the Netherlands, and everything is new. You go to the supermarket, wanting to buy laundry detergent, but find yourself staring blankly at a row of bottles with Dutch labels. You randomly pick one based on a hunch, only to discover back home it was fabric softener.

You take a train to a neighbouring city; the announcements are in Dutch, and you can't recognise the station names on the screen. You spend the entire journey constantly glued to your phone's map, worried about missing your stop.

You receive an important letter from the municipality, but it's entirely in Dutch. You have no idea if it's informing you that your residence permit is ready, or if there's an issue with your application.

In these moments, you'll realise that while Dutch people are willing to speak English to you, the entire Dutch society still operates in Dutch. You're like a specially accommodated guest; everyone is polite, but you constantly feel like an outsider.

One Party, Two Experiences

Imagine living or travelling in the Netherlands as attending a grand family party.

If you only speak English, you're a 'distinguished guest'.

The hosts (the Dutch people) are incredibly warm and hospitable. When they see you, they make it a point to come over, speak to you in your language (English), and ensure you're comfortable. You can get drinks, and chat with a few others who also speak English. You are indeed at the party, and it's alright.

But the catch is, the real party is happening in another room.

In that 'main hall' where conversations are in Dutch, everyone is sharing inside jokes, engrossed in spirited discussions, and sharing their genuine emotions and lives. You can hear bursts of laughter echoing from the next room, but you'll never understand the punchline. You're just a politely entertained guest, not truly a part of the party.

Don't you feel a bit short-changed?

Language: The Key to the 'Main Hall'

Now, imagine you've learned a few simple Dutch phrases. Even if it's just a 'Dank je wel' (Thank you) when buying something, or stuttering through a dish name when ordering food.

Something magical happens.

The cashier will break into a surprised smile; your Dutch friends will feel respected by your effort; you'll suddenly understand which items are on discount at the supermarket, and you can understand that train announcement, 'Next stop, Utrecht.'

You are no longer that 'distinguished guest' standing outside looking in, but you've gained the key to enter the 'main hall'.

You don't need to speak perfectly; your 'attempt' itself is the most powerful form of communication. It sends a message: 'I respect your culture, and I want to understand you better.'

This will open up a whole new door for you, transforming you from a 'tourist' to a welcome 'friend', and you'll gain real human connections, far more precious than just sightseeing.

From 'Surviving' to 'Integrating', You Need a Smart Companion

Of course, learning a new language takes time and patience. On your journey from being a 'party guest' to becoming the 'main character of the party', you'll inevitably encounter awkward moments of not understanding what you hear or see.

At such times, a tool that can help you instantly bridge the gap becomes extremely important.

Imagine when your Dutch friend sends you a message in their local language inviting you to an event, or when you need to understand an important Dutch document – Intent is like that multilingual, smart friend in your pocket. Its built-in AI translation feature allows you to seamlessly communicate with anyone in the world, helping you instantly understand those 'whispers in the party', making your learning journey more confident and at ease.


Ultimately, when travelling or living in a country, we can choose to just 'survive' using English; it's safe and convenient.

But we can also choose to 'integrate' using the local language, to feel the pulse of the culture, and understand those smiles and goodwill that cannot be translated.

It's like upgrading from watching a black and white film to experiencing a full-colour IMAX.

So, do you just want to be an entertained guest, or truly join the celebration?