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Only Speaking English in the Netherlands is Like Attending a Party Where You Don't Get Any of the Jokes

2025-08-13

Only Speaking English in the Netherlands is Like Attending a Party Where You Don't Get Any of the Jokes

Many people say, "Going to the Netherlands? No need to learn Dutch—their English is fantastic!"

And they're not wrong. The Dutch consistently rank among the top non-native English speakers in the world. You could easily find a young person on the street who speaks English more fluently than you do. So, if your goal is just to "survive" or "get by" in the Netherlands using only English, you'll be perfectly fine.

But have you ever considered that "surviving" and "truly living" are two completely different things?

What You Think is Easy is Actually Missing Out on the Full Experience

Imagine you've just arrived in the Netherlands, and everything is new and exciting. You go to the supermarket, wanting to buy laundry detergent, but find yourself staring blankly at a shelf full of bottles with only Dutch labels. You grab one based on a hunch, only to get home and realize it's fabric softener.

You take a train to a neighboring city, but the announcements are all in Dutch, and you can't read the station names on the screen. You spend the entire journey nervously glued to your phone map, terrified of missing your stop.

You receive an important letter from the city hall, but it's entirely in Dutch. You have no idea if it's informing you that your residence permit has been approved or if there's an issue with your application.

In these moments, you'll realize that even though the Dutch are willing to speak English with you, Dutch society as a whole still operates in its native language. You're treated like a specially accommodated guest—everyone is polite, but you always feel like an outsider.

One Party, Two Experiences

Imagine living or traveling in the Netherlands as attending a big family party.

If you only speak English, you're a "VIP."

The hosts (the Dutch) are incredibly warm and welcoming. When they see you, they'll go out of their way to talk to you in your language (English), ensuring you feel comfortable. You'll get drinks, and you can chat with a few other English speakers. You're definitely at the party, and you're having an okay time.

But here's the thing: The real party is happening in another room.

In that "main hall" where everyone's speaking Dutch, people are sharing inside jokes, chatting passionately, and revealing their true emotions and lives. You hear bursts of laughter from the next room, but you'll never know what the punchline was. You're merely a politely hosted guest, not truly a part of the party.

Doesn't that feel like you're missing out?

Language: The Key to the "Main Hall"

Now, imagine you've learned a few simple Dutch phrases. Even if it's just saying “Dank je wel” (thank you) when you're buying something, or stumbling through a menu item when ordering food.

Something magical happens.

The cashier's face will light up with a surprised smile; your Dutch friends will feel respected by your effort; you'll suddenly understand which products are on sale at the supermarket, and you'll be able to catch "Next stop, Utrecht" on the train announcements.

You're no longer the "VIP" standing outside, merely observing; instead, you've gained the key to the "main hall."

You don't need to speak perfectly; your "attempt" itself is the most powerful form of communication. It sends the message: "I respect your culture, and I want to understand you better."

This will open a whole new door for you, transforming you from a "tourist" into a welcome "friend," leading to something far more valuable than scenic views: genuine human connections.

From "Surviving" to "Integrating," You Need a Smart Companion

Of course, learning a new language takes time and patience. On your journey from being a "party VIP" to becoming the "life of the party," you'll inevitably encounter awkward moments where you can't understand what's being said or read.

That's where a tool that can help you instantly bridge those gaps becomes especially crucial.

Imagine your Dutch friend sends you a message in their local language, inviting you to an event, or you need to understand an important Dutch document. That's when Lingogram comes in—it's like having a smart, multilingual friend right in your pocket. Its built-in AI translation feature allows you to communicate seamlessly with anyone in the world, helping you instantly understand those "party whispers" and empowering you to navigate your language-learning journey with greater confidence and ease.


Ultimately, when traveling or living in a foreign country, we can choose to merely "survive" with English—it's safe and convenient.

But we can also choose to "integrate" by using the local language, to feel the heartbeat of the culture, and to understand the smiles and gestures of kindness that can't be translated.

It's like upgrading from watching a black-and-white film to experiencing a full-color IMAX.

So, do you want to be just a politely hosted guest, or do you want to truly join the celebration?